Category Archives: Kyrgyz Republic – Spring 2015

Sick Abroad

Well, in less than forty-eight hours in Kyrgyzstan, I became extremely ill with the worst food poisoning I’ve ever had in my life. Here’s a recap of last Sunday:

8AM: Wake up feeling awful. Throw up four times and then go to sleep.

10AM: Wake up feeling awful. Throw up again and go back to sleep, this time on the floor which, in my nausea, seems to be a better option.

11:30AM: Woken up by my host sister who’s bewildered by my new sleeping location. Once again, throw up. This time, the puke is green bile. (I hope you aren’t eating, my dear reader.) My host sister makes me a warm drink that I promptly throw up. She calls the medics.

12:30AM: Medics arrive. They poke around my stomach for a while before making me chug five liters of warm water, causing me throw up twice more. (I later found out that if I hadn’t drank the water quick enough, they were planning to use a funnel to force me to drink it.) Satisfied, they leave.

2PM: A doctor/college friend of my host mother, who works as a doctor in Kazakhstan, appears. She has my sister run to the pharmacy and pick up three liters of saline solution to rehydrate me as well as medicine. Together, they construct a stand for the saline solution with a piece of wood, a chair, and two scarves. My Kyrgyz MacGyver angels. The doctor is so incredibly nice. She does more than prescribe pills, she asks when I plan to marry and all sorts of other life questions while holding my hand as the saline solution drips into my arm.

6PM: Doctor leaves and I start to feel better.

Throughout the day I really missed my mom. An EMT and hospital employee for many years, she is always the first person I call when I get sick, explaining medical terms and offering incontestable motherly compassion. To be that sick and not have internet, not be able to call her, was really difficult. It was hard for her as well.

The amount of intense love from the people surrounding me was crazy though. When my host mother, an experienced doctor who deals with far worse-off people every day, heard that I was ill, she called her friend (the doctor) saying “my Ashlie, my daughter, my Ashlie is sick!” and regularly checked iin throughout the day. She told me before that she sees me as her third daughter but I didn’t recognize what that meant until that day.

My host sister only left my side to get medicine. When there was a phrase that I didn’t understand, she helped me comprehend it. Now, she’s become very strict about what I’m allowed to do:

  • Drink tea with raspberry jam
  • Lay down as much as possible
  • Wear a scarf around my head at all times while outside
  • Not take a shower

(The last rule stinks, literally.)

My school adviser worried about what was happening and regularly called to hear how I was doing, offering to come translate or find a good, private hospital.

Also, everything, all the care and medicine I received, was free. I’m still trying to wrap my head around that.

It’s difficult to explain all of the emotions of the day except to say that it ended in overwhelming gratitude to the people that love me, both here in Kyrgyzstan and home in Kansas. I’m pleased to share that I’m feeling a lot better, have expanded my Russian vocabulary in all things illness-related, and have begun my studies at AUCA!

Return to Kyrgyzstan

Well, the winter holiday season has passed and today I’m returning back to Kyrgyzstan for my second and final semester.

To be honest, I’m not ready to go back.

I missed so much over the last semester, heartbreaks and milestones alike. My nephews and my niece (the smartest and most wonderful children in the world) grew so much over the last semester!

Frankly, I feel guilty and selfish for going back. My study abroad adventures over the past year have been hard for my close-knit family, who has been constantly been asking me, “Could you just not do this second semester abroad?” The time apart has also been hard on my relationship with my boyfriend and, to top all of this off, in two weeks, my wonderful sister will be having a baby.

…and yet. I know that the opportunity in front of me is unique and amazing. If I don’t go back, I might never have another chance to spend significant time in Central Asia. Kyrgyzstan and the other Central Asian states are so culturally rich and complex that if I spent ten years there, I probably wouldn’t understand all of the subtleties. The natural beauty is stunning and the people in this region are incredibly kind. How can I only go there for one semester?

I’ve already begun to miss beautiful Kansas and the people I love. I’m already looking forward to returning, with the goodbyes being as hard as they have been, I’m sure the return will be even sweeter.